Caught ya!

One candid shot of my forklift driver caught sleeping on his horse. Too tired for sure, and to hot I guess.   

It is a candid shot of someone, but it is a real picture of reality. Working is never easy. You can't gain without pain. This is what our parents actually experienced (not exactly as above-lah) as they worked and worked for us. Some of them even fell sick from overworked just to make sure we can grow better. 

We will repay them later, of course, right?

p/s : "where's money deduction list?" 

Partner

"my partner at my workplace"

We may admit, we are strong, we are capable enough to handle everything ourselves. Yet we must acknowledge that we aren't ALWAYS strong. Sometimes we need someone to ask for help, someone to depend on. Why? Because we're human. Human ain't perfect. Even when we're celebrating something, we still need someone to cheer with. Right?

Do appreciate your partners. Its good having them, although sometimes they suck. Haha.


p/s : Its almost two years, and I cannot explain in words how much I appreciate you for being with me through thick and thin. Thanks dear.

Life and Target

There's a term called "step by step". Which means one by one. By order. You must do something step by step to ensure the success in doing it. You always put garlic first before putting other ingredients while cooking, otherwise your meal will be tasty but doesn't smell that tasty. You must put on your boxer first before your pant, otherwise people will address you crazy. Am I right? In this case, yes.

That's order.

Same applied to life, study, work, marry, have kids, then die - either normally or by accidents. But notice that each simple step explained is actually a very complex stage, which will eventually affect the other phase. Study well, you'll get better job. Better job, large saving, get marry faster. Its something what we call in chemistry as a chain reaction. Its like domino-lah. 


And for now, after 23 years of life, I finally came to the "marry" phase. Of course in my Malay tradition engagement should come first. But personally, I don't prefer that. For me no need to engage. Just set the date and get marry. You can save more money by doing that, as you will spend some of your saving on this and you're still cannot sleep with your fiance, LOL. But don't take it personally, engagement is a good thing, but I prefer not to do that. Let see if future can change me (hopefully not-lah).

When you have worked long enough, I can assure you, even after one year of working you will think differently. "I should buy a car, I should buy a house, I should get marry" - all this stuff. And if its not you, people around you will. And that's what actually happening to me for the time being. Getting carried away. Such a nuisance, but still so attempting.

And that's why "step by step" is vital. You should set a target for yourself, how long it is before you change your work, when you should get marry, will you continue your study of not -- its called target. And to reach target, you must know your next step. Never let other things distract you. Never.

Err..

But I still want to buy new gadgets, buy a car, a DSLR, travelling overseas.... how ah?

p/s : Mekah dulu bro. Overseas tu belakang kira.

Mukabuku

Salam. Syukurlah aku larat lagi nak mengemaskini blog ni. Syukur.

Satu soalan mukadimah, bagaimana rasanya andai tak bertemu kekasih hati dalam tempoh yang lama (bukan untuk yang long-distance relationship lah) ? Rindu amatkah? Dan bagaimana pula kalau kita dapat berjumpa dengan rakan lama -- katakan sekurang2nya 10 tahun terpisah? Bagi aku, bukan rindu yang jadi jawapan untuk soalan kedua, tapi keutamaan aku memang jatuh pada perjumpaan kedua tu dulu. Rela aku korbankan masa untuk berjumpa si dia semata2 untuk bertemu rakan itu. Pada akulah.

Dan Tuhan Maha Pengasih. Aku berkesempatan bertemu seorang rakan lama, 15 tahun jarak kami terpisah. Dan semuanya bermula dari Facebook. Inilah jawapannya bila ada yang bertanya apakah kepentingan Facebook. Terima kasih Mark Zuckerberg. Haha.

Perjumpaan itu sudah pasti bukannya berakhir dalam satu jam sahaja. Alhamdulillah, kami berdua masih sihat, masih kenal kaum keluarga masing2, dan paling penting, teruja untuk bertemu. 15 tahun cukup besar jumlahnya, tapi kami tak banyak berubah. Masih begitu dan masih begini.

Facebook bukan sesuatu yang buruk. Setahu aku, benda2 social sebegitu -- Facebook, Twitter, Foursquare, Myspace demi kepentingan yang positif. Aku konfem bab tu. Tapi kitalah yang menyalahgunakannya. Dan aku konfem  jugak perihal statement kedua tu. Yakin dan pasti.

Gunakan otak untuk sesuatu yang berguna. Sudu pun boleh membunuh sebenarnya, sedangkan tujuan asalnya hanyalah dicipta untuk memudahkan kita makan. Macam2.


p/s : Facebook lagi. Baru jumpa satu member lama.

mudahnya berniat, susahnya membuat

Morning. Bahana dikacau hantu aku bangun awal hari. Haha kan orang selalu cakap setiap kejadian mesti ada hikmahnya. Tapi cukup a skali. Dua kali serik dah.

Mudahnya berniat tapi susahnya membuat?

Memang. Semua tahu sangat2 senang kalau mulut ni nak mengucapkan sesuatu, atau ringkasnya kalau terfikirkan something - nak buat tu nak buat ni ai senangnye kalau camni and so on. Aku tau. Senang. Tapi dalam merealisasikannya? Ramai alpa. Nak menjadikan sesuatu tu wujud memang banyak kesannya. Banyak aspek kena fikir, wajar atau tidak, apa kesannya kat orang lain, camtu. Contoh ringkas, bila kita sedang belajar lagi memang banyak tests dan assignments. Dan mesti kita ada terfikir yang alahai senangnya kalau dah keja, takyah fikir nak study apa suma. Tapi percayalah, bile ko dah keja ko mesti akan fikir alahai senangnya kalau belajar lagi, takyah nak bangun awal pegi keja, bajet gaji untuk kawin dan macam2 lagi.

Adoiyai!

Nak seribu daya, tak nak seribu dalih, kan?


p/s : Jangan harap dengan Tuhan je, Dia memang takkan bagi saje2 je.

Berehat

Ini adalah entri pertama selepas beberapa puluh hari aku tinggal blogging2 ni. Semestinya hari Ahad - itu je hari yang aku senang. Al-maklumlah, dah keje. Tunggu mase je nak jejak pelamin. Tu dia.

Jadi macam mana nak sambut satu hari cuti ni? Tengok wayang? Main futsal? Main gitar? Makan banyak2? Tidur kaw2? Keluar shopping?

Nasib baek cuti sehari je. Haha. Tapi seksa bai sehari cuti. SEKSA.

Bantal dah jerit. Selamat Sunday!


p/s : Takziah buat mangsa2 Washi. Jauhkanlah ancamannya dari Malaysia, hati-hati rakyat Sabah.